A brotherly warning (to worldly men) Man, if you derive any value from the number of women you've slept with, there's a big issue here. You are enough. I think you needed to hear that. You're deriving value (because you're unsure you have any...) from what society deems good. Do I need to remind you that societal metrics are EXACTLY what is demonic and what will ruin your life? Being a player will ruin your life. You're acting like a capricious child crying for validation, hooked on the validation rush it gives you to gain access to a woman's intimacy. As well as enslaved to lust and sex — which is predatory behavior. Again, all of that is praised as "good" in the demonic value system you abide by. Sorry to break it to you, but you're on the path of destruction, and you probably know it. On the path towards a marriage that won’t last, psychologically broken kids, a life spent trying to fix a failing family unit — with everything falling into pieces you won’t be able to reconcile. And as a consequence, probably on the path of falling even deeper into addictive behaviors, perversion, mind-numbing destructive pleasures, and self-obsession. Because you literally trained yourself in adultery, predation, self-centeredness, pride, and external validation. It is the recipe for disaster. Ok now, my words are harsh. I did not hold them back. It's brother to brother. But these demonic societal values are preying on you, and you abide by them because of your desperate need for approval. So nobody here is condemning you. Not at all. But you need to hear about the path you're taking. The need for validation being cut from God is the most profound and widespread blackmail of humanity that has ever existed, since the dawn of time. So again, nobody's blaming you here — it’s a brotherly warning. I especially can’t blame you for this because you don’t know that there’s an alternative. That this excruciating need for love and validation — the one currently leading you down every dark path — can be filled to 100% and beyond. See this article : Society hides it from you. Nobody talks about it. The alternative is Christ. And all those broken pieces will fall into place. But... if you followed the logic when we were talking about values, this stands at the bottom of what society deems good. It is even mocked. Indeed, you have no choice but to sacrifice the glory of men. Some people will call you "loser", someone who has lost the plot, someone who turned to "God" because they didn’t "make" it. By society’s standards, you may indeed be judged as someone with the lowest social prestige. There’s no way around it. You have to be willing to sacrifice all human glory. But your attitude and detachment from all these idols will spark a light in people. Will raise questions. It will show that there’s another way to live. Especially when they will see you happy, joyful, loving, and completely satisfied without the idols they are actively pursuing. You have to be willing to lose yourself. Nothing from the old man must remain. But don’t be scared. It’s the only life adventure worth taking.