October 2024 Men look for love in achievements. Women look for love in relationships. Modern feminism said: "Let's do like men!" (focusing on achievements). Which was clearly a wrong "good" idea because men didn't have it either... They were (and are still) equally wrong. What both men and women need is God. That's where the Love is. More specifically: it's in the Word of God. The Bible. That's where you meet God and start your relationship with Him. As weird as it can sound, let me double down on this: Everything you're looking for in the world in vain - fulfillemnent, healing, peace, happiness, love, wisdom - is freely available in the Word of God. And only there. Yes, crazy. I know! Thinking that anything of existential value can come from the world is the trap we all fall for before finding God. But you simply can't demand love from the world (through achievements or relationships) because... it has none! You can't ask for love from people who are looking for it as much as you do. Without God, we're all empty cups bumping into other empty cups. So seek God, let Him complete you, and then realize that the world is there to receive from you, not for you to take from it. That's the original design. Read the Bible! Drop your pride! :) Start with the New Testament!