October 2024 Men look for love in achievements. Women look for love in relationships. Modern feminism said: "Let's do like men" (focusing on achievements). It was clearly a "wrong good" idea because men didn't have it either... They were (and are still) equally wrong. What both men and women need is... God. That's where the Love is. More specifically: it's in the Word of God. The Bible. That's where you meet God and start your relationship with Him. As weird as it can sound, let me double down on this: Everything you're looking for in the world in vain - fulfillemnent, healing, peace, happiness, love, wisdom... is all avaliable in the Word of God and only there. Yes, crazy. I know! Thinking that anything of existential value could come from the world is a trap we all fall for before finding God. But you simply can't demand love from the world (through achievements or relationships) because... it has none! You can't ask for love from people who are looking for it as much as you do. So find God, let Him complete you, and then realize the right way to go: the world is there to receive from you, not for you to take from it. Read the Bible! Drop your pride! :) Start with the New Testament!